Anger is rarely just about the moment.
Maybe small things set you off. You lose patience with people you care about. You shut down during conflict or feel tension building until eventually something comes out.
Underneath anger, there’s often something else: stress, hurt, anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, or the feeling that you’re not being heard.
The goal isn't to get rid of your anger. It's to understand what it's trying to tell you.