Somewhere along the way, many of us stopped asking, "What do I want?"
And started asking, "What am I supposed to want?"
Over time, we learn to keep the peace. To be responsible. To avoid disappointing everyone.
Eventually, it becomes difficult to tell the difference between what we truly want and what we've learned to want.
But actually, desire is information. It tells us what feels meaningful. What brings us alive. What we want more of in our relationships, our work, and our lives.
Learning to listen to your desire isn't about chasing every impulse, it's about becoming honest with yourself. Because it's hard to build a life that feels authentic if you've lost touch with what matters most to you.
Therapy isn't about convincing you what to want. It's about helping you hear yourself again.